The G Center
The G Center is the place where we find our self identity, love and direction in life. The "Magnetic Monopole," or our center of gravity resides here. The G Center attracts things to you that are part of your life purpose. This is where love for ourselves and others is cultivated, and we change the direction of our life through allowing our love to grow and flourish.
The “Defined” G Center
If you have a Defined G Center, your sense of who you are, what you like, what you value is pretty fixed. Although you always grow and evolve, your core identity will stay the same. You may even try at some point in your life to be like someone else, but, no matter what, you are who you are. You experience life in a certain way and there is little variability in that. Your life path is also more deliberate, meaning that you will unconsciously tend to choose experiences that deal with core life lessons as compared to someone with an Open G Center, who tends to take on experiences for the sake of experience. Think of it this way: if life is a smorgasbord, people with Open G Centers choose a variety of tastes, whereas someone with a Defined G Center will either pick tastes they already know they like or order off the menu. :)
Because your sense of self is so consistent and fixed, you may sometimes find it hard to love and accept yourself as you are. You may wish you could be different, even thinking that people would like you better if you were different. But you would have a difficult time trying to be someone you are not, so loving and accepting yourself just as you are is vitally important.
Questioning our ability to be love and accepted separates us from Love itself; the feeling of separateness pushes us to look outside of ourselves for love; we try to become "worthy" of the love we seek. But Love is who we are, it can't be found anywhere else. The G Center is the container for love; that Love force is so strong that it pulls everything back to a state of oneness.
Surrendering to who you are created to be is surrendering to Love.
You have the innate ability to:
empower others to love by your example,
embody your physical form as a vessel of Love, and
fully express the full vitality of life through all that you are!
The “Open” G Center
If you have an Open G Center, there is malleability and variability in your expression of love, direction and self-identity. You take in and amplify these energies from other people—their life experiences, their wounds and pains, their sense of self, their lovability and worthiness. As a result, you are incredibly sensitive to others. You may feel inauthentic at times because you act differently depending on the person you are with. It may be hard to know who you are when you identify with so many people around you. You also may tend to "merge" with people you are in relationship with; this is partly because you have the ability to see the potential in everyone and can "fall in love" with practically everyone you meet! It is helpful to set firm boundaries and watch what people do and say, versus the potential you see in them.
When it comes to your life purpose, you may feel as if you lack clarity because there is so much variability in your life. You may struggle to know which path to take on your life journey. But the key here is not which path you choose, but learning from each choice and decision. You have a lot of freedom in your ability to choose!
You learn about life by sampling different ways of being in the world. Through experience, you learn what you like, don't like, and who YOU really are. Think of it like a smorgasbord: you get to sample and try different tastes; when you visit the same buffet again, you'll know which tastes are the ones that satisfy you the most and which ones to leave out.
Environment is extremely important to you as you navigate all of your choices. When you are in the wrong place and with the wrong people, you probably feel as if nothing works, no one gets you, and that your life is at a standstill. This is your true G Center calling you to move forward. You've outgrown your environment and it's time to move on. Changing your environment can be as simple as rearranging your furniture or changing the people you are hanging around with; it can be as different as moving to a completely new city. Making a change in your environment creates a wonderful opportunity for new things, experiences and people to show up in your life. When you are in the right environment, it feels comfortable. Your wisdom about other people can be expressed and you are able to amplify your own sense of self.
Lovability may be a key issue for you. If so, sit with the questions:
Am I Lovable?
Am I in an environment that supports me?
Do I have people around me who make me feel lovable and seen?
Do they reflect the same values as I?
Learning to love yourself, even the parts of you that are changeable, allows you to express your highest values and integrity and gives you the ability to express self-love and acceptance to the people around you.
You've been given a great gift: the ability to love and find beauty in people just as the are. How precious is that?!
